Got a reply from our agency. They are working with a few expectant mothers who are very early on, and it’s too early to start talking match. They like to do lots of work with mothers to ensure that adoption is the choice that they want, no pressure from them. It’s one of the reasons we chose them.
They were very opposed to a web presence, which could be a generational thing. I disagree, personally. Since we were matched with V, twitter and facebook have revolutionized how people find and communicate with one another.
But the timing…perhaps coincidental, or maybe she saw the other post. I have no way of knowing. So we wait, as we have done. I do know in my heart of hearts that this wait is not forever. We will eventually be matched with a baby who needs a home, and a birth family that is seeking a relationship that works for everyone involved. Our family will one day be a family of four.
Anyhow, thanks for the support, whether you’re here from the IF community, an IRL friend, our family, or our agency. I write now, with the assumption that the whole world reads this site, so I try to be careful with what I say. I know I can be found pretty easily, and so I try to limit posting to things that are my story, or our story, but not V or our future kid’s story.
